Marriage is a halal option and has many benefits for the couple on a psychological, emotional, and physical level. In Islam, respect and trust are essential components of a healthy relationship.
Long Term Love
When considering marriage, reflect on the reasons why you want to marry someone. Put aside cultural expectations and ask yourself whether you really would like to stay with this person in the long run and form a family with them.
Navigating Halal “Dating”
To approach love and marriage in a halal manner, understand who you truly are and what you expect from a spouse. Consider the Islamic priorities: deen and character. Involve the parents in the beginning, and know what you want in a partner.
Real Obstacles?
Identify the obstacles to marriage, such as studies, work, money, or family issues. Imagine that these concerns suddenly disappear; would you like to marry this person, and would they marry you?
The Power of Love
Love is one of the extremely powerful feelings in the world! It’s not wrong to have feelings, like someone or experience love towards them and want to marry them. In fact, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “There is nothing like marriage, for two who love one another.” (Sunan ibn Majah 1847)
Premarital Course
Participate in an Islamic premarital course to prepare yourself for marriage from an Islamic point of view. This will help you understand the responsibilities and expectations of marriage in Islam.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is romance allowed in Islam?
Yes, romance is allowed in Islam, as long as it is conducted in accordance with Islamic principles.
How do I navigate complex situations in my relationship?
Show respect to your partner, even in difficult situations, and prioritize communication and understanding.
Can I find my soulmate in Islam?
Yes, in Islam, marriage is not just a means of fulfilling our physical needs, but also a means of attaining spiritual growth and closeness to Allah.